Acceptance is Action
I am midway through a three week Sadhan Yoga course. The practice asks for a short morning meditation. Most mornings it is twenty minutes with real life in the room. Dog on my lap. Children nearby. Noise and interruption. The work is to quiet the mind in the present as it is.
Last September I made a decision. No more growth through suffering. Growth through joy and ease instead. Then life tested that stance. Father’s Day in a hospital. A fall down the stairs. Nearly fifty job rejections. Listening to Tibetan Yoga of Breath reminded me that suffering is part of life. Refusing it is another way of wrestling with what is. Any positive action in the future still begins with one choice in the present.
Acceptance is not passive. Acceptance is accurate contact with reality. For me that looks like noticing what is working, naming what matters, and moving one step at a time. Gratitude is a discipline, not a mood. Attention is a resource. Where I place it shapes what grows next.
My operating notes from this season
• Be in the present and name it honestly
• Choose one next action that serves what matters
• Build small structures that make the action likely to happen again
• Treat gratitude as practice, not performance
• Let learning come with ease when possible, with courage when not
In this moment ask: where can I extend compassion. That is the frequency of forward momentum. Of action in acceptance of what is.